Last day in work for two weeks, yippee! Although it is not a positive influence to be happy when you are not doing something you don’t want to do. Therefore the only answer is to do something you enjoy, period. It also requires a certain amount of relinquishment on the things that you think you want such as unnecessary gadgets, Versace wallpaper, Porsche 911. However if you have tried something for 8 years and still have found no answer, then the best idea is to look for it elsewhere.
A wise man with a “elongated dorphal appendage” said to me today w.r.t. my new found state of singledom:
“A flying dove is a beautiful thing to watch soaring to ever higher heights, however if you tie two doves together, they fly no-where.”
Perhaps it was just because they were his words, or perhaps they connected within, however they were pleasing to hear.